性福在路上

2018-07-17 06:24:28

It's precisely because I cheated on you that I need to be even more dignified in front of you.

green985

2018-07-17 08:23:31

It's almost certain that the environment and the people are suitable...

adnilyl

2018-07-17 11:07:58

OP, for someone to cheat, three conditions must be met simultaneously: Is there an opportunity? Are there suitable conditions? Are there rationalizing thoughts? From your description, there is an opportunity, because you're in the same office or on a business trip. I don't know about the conditions, but they refer to whether someone actively pursued you, whether they were exceptionally good, whether you're frequently away from home, and whether your wife is willing to enjoy the attention, etc. Rationalizing thoughts refer to your income, your attitude towards life, your attentiveness, etc., and whether your wife is satisfied or resentful. If your wife is resentful, she might act out of revenge or dissatisfaction. Therefore, physical infidelity is unlikely, because timid, introverted people are unlikely to cheat, mainly for fear of negative consequences. Regarding the emotional aspect, you can search online for the characteristics of emotional infidelity. However, I divide emotional infidelity into two levels: the level of attraction and the level of longing. Your description is not specific enough; I can only make the following judgment based on the limited information you have. The reasons your wife refuses to have sex with you, gets nervous when you look at her phone, and talks about her during sex could be one of the following: 1. Your wife is currently only at the level of attraction. On one hand, she's shy and introverted, afraid you'll talk about her secrets. On the other hand, shy and introverted people might have a certain degree of hidden desire, and your prompting led her to talk about him. I think this is very likely. 2. Perhaps you haven't been behaving well, for example, haven't been attentive to her feelings, as mentioned above. You should reflect on this first. 3. It's definitely not at the level of longing, because if it were, it would affect your daily life, mainly manifesting as indifference and coldness towards you. This possibility is currently less likely. I think you should first reflect on yourself. Why do you keep creating conflicts? Could you take a step back, be more considerate and caring, and then have a proper talk with your wife, expressing your thoughts and letting her express hers? Wouldn't that be better? At least it wouldn't push your wife to the level of longing, and it wouldn't worsen your marriage.

steelman

2018-07-17 21:04:22

A simple deduction reveals that it was already settled long ago. Otherwise, where would the fur on the sofa come from? Her dignified demeanor was just for show. Otherwise, why would she be so nervous about touching his phone?

广州单男求3P

2018-07-18 00:06:43

We had sex 100%, you could say we absolutely did.

中国梅

2018-07-18 00:54:29

Personally, I believe that any normal woman, if you show her love and help her experience a full and satisfying orgasm, will crave sex. Women don't have sex with just anyone; they only have sex with those they feel a connection with. The fact that she's having sex with you indicates she no longer has feelings for you.

我妻是教师

2018-07-21 04:44:55

Put aside the idea of having an affair for now; improving your marital relationship is the priority. Without a stable emotional foundation, having an affair will only lead to divorce.

此情可以成追忆

2020-11-27 12:07:00

@My wife is a teacher, I strongly agree.