2017-04-27 17:21:42
The original poster is right. Whether it's a couple or a single man, it's not advisable to ask for photos before gaining full trust. Safety and privacy should be the top priority.100103

2017-04-27 18:40:47
Let me answer you: You'd better keep this pitiful privacy to yourself and leave your social circle. Other men's wives are willing to give you that, yet you have so many arguments about just one photo. No married couple is worthy of you.100103

2017-04-27 18:42:16
At your age, barring any unforeseen circumstances, you should already be married. (The rest is omitted; everyone who reads this knows what I'm trying to say.)100103

2017-04-27 19:26:43
I support you!100103

2017-04-28 16:03:51
You're right to protect privacy, and it's also understandable that the couple might lose interest in continuing the conversation if they don't even have a photo. Why don't you find someone who doesn't require photos and let them find someone who is willing to share them? What's there to complain about?100103

2017-04-28 18:38:50
If your job truly requires special permission, then don't do this. That's my advice; nothing is 100% safe.100103

2017-04-28 21:29:46
Most men who are cuckolded are sexually unsatisfied with their wives, and the woman is more dominant in the family, which is why they take this step. It's normal for them to be concerned about the appearance of single men. Since they've already gone down this path, they shouldn't regret it, or they might as well find a woman to play the swapping game with.100103

2017-04-28 23:44:42
Personally, I think if a single man doesn't send photos or if neither party sends photos, then if they've been chatting for a year or two and they feel a connection but still don't click, isn't that a waste of both parties' time?100103

2017-04-29 00:49:43
It's not good to come here and complain when friendships don't work out, is it? Friendships should be approached with a calm and accepting attitude; whether a relationship succeeds or fails, it's best to let things take their natural course.100103

2017-04-29 09:07:31
People have different perspectives, needs, and interests. The other person is a couple while you are a single man (even though you have a girlfriend or wife). If everything is considered equally, wouldn't you feel that you, as a single man, have taken advantage (from another perspective, you've taken advantage of the couple, yet you still feel their demands are unfair, thinking single men are weak...)? Couples aren't bound by this, and it's normal for them to ask for photos or pictures. It's understandable that you feel uncomfortable due to safety concerns. This only shows that you haven't found a balance in your needs, not that single men have no status as you believe. Everyone should try to consider things from the other person's perspective, and then find what they love based on their own preferences. What do you think...?100103

2017-05-08 00:04:54
My darling wife is very particular about first impressions; if there's no chemistry, she won't even chat with you.100103

2017-06-08 13:13:23
If it's agreed upon beforehand, then there's nothing wrong with doing so.100103

2020-08-24 01:34:16
Once you find one that meets your requirements, please let me know.100103

2020-09-15 16:24:15
@octopus747 This probably represents your personal situation!100103

2020-09-16 07:20:56
@zuiai69w is right.100103

2020-12-04 13:15:17
It's safest not to play.100103
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